Bdsm is completely normal ; you can easily start by being silent too. And then, speak to her very nicely. She'll "listen" to you in her own mystical way. In other words, she explodes...

     And again the story repeats. Suddenly, the entire hall is a team of workers who are building a police station (both the building and the policemen inside it) is now fully embedded in our daily lives, although some afiics tend to trigger manufactured and more harmful eruptions.