If you tell them what to do, they will freak out. You should not do it! Is there no other way out? Take the police as an example. Policemen make good use of passive force.

     You may not like passivity, and I understand your point. Very few people like passivity anyway. If you tell them what to do, they will freak out. You should not do it!

     Is there no other way out? Take the police as an example.